Looking hot isn't enough. If you want to aggressively boost your revenue, you don’t need to change your face—you need to upgrade your energy.

Don’t get me wrong. I am the last person who is ever going to tell you to stop investing in your looks. Buy the Botox. Get your lashes done. Never give up the things that make you feel hot. 

But, if you think a new set of extensions or another syringe of lip filler is magically going to unlock your next $20k month, you are lying to yourself.

The perfect hair and makeup won't drive sales if your energy on camera feels flat and your body is tense. You can’t manifest a higher tax bracket with a body that constantly feels like she’s under attack.

If you’re constantly surrounded by toxic people or people you aren't genuinely excited to spend time with, your energy is blocked. 

Holding onto people you have outgrown requires a massive amount of energy and is the number one thing that stops my clients from having their biggest glow up.

When you get super picky about who has access to you, your nervous system can finally stop scanning for danger. And this has a direct, undeniable effect on your business.

You are more creative, take more risks and finally start showing up as you, instead of the watered-down version. People can't help but gravitate towards you, opportunities find you, and money becomes obsessed with you. 

So, what’s your next move?

You start with aggressive subtraction. Scaling your business requires an energetic detox of the shit that's draining you: 

The low-effort fuck boys: Stop treating your energy like a delivery app. If he only texts you at 7pm to come over, it's time to upgrade. Your pussy is not DoorDash, baby, and you don’t do deliveries. Block him already.

The fence sitters: The friendships you feel obligated to maintain out of guilt rather than genuine excitement. They are either actively contributing to your glow up or giving you wrinkles—there’s no middle ground.

The comparison spiral: Human beings are wired for the "chameleon effect." Our moods and emotions are literally contagious. Wasting hours scrolling on social media is literally downloading other people's anxiety and insecurities into your nervous system. 

The guilt traps: Spending your precious time talking to people who get on your fucking nerves. They don't pay you, you don't even like them, yet they ruin your day because you're afraid to hurt their feelings.

Here's the truth: having low standards costs you money.

Start thinking of every person in your life as either a withdrawal from your bank account or an investment in your glow up.